Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Amazing story

I will post my boyfriends bio, yes he has issues spelling now but thats who he is so dont judge him! Im posting this for motivation because his story is amazing!

There is so much about me but everything evolves around 1 life changing event. On April 10 2005, my time for judgement was due, I was in a car acsadent NO I WASNT DRIVING! It left me in a Coma, with many broken bones. I have Traumatic brain injury (TBI), also called acquired brain injury. TBI is a result of when the head, suddenly and violently hits an object, or when an object pierces the skull and enters brain tissue. In my situation bolth happend. I am what i would call a Marical. I was dignoced with a severe case of Brain Damge, what that mean's is every thing you do with out thinkin of, Every Thing we take for granet was taken from me. I couldn't walk, talk, eat, breath, open my eyes - Every Thing Was Taken From Me! Half of my body was paralized along with breaking more bone's then you could conpreheand. I was knokd back to the nolige of a two year old, with body functions of a dieing person. This exsparanse made me see just how valubel life is! There is so mutch i am thankfull for and, prowd of. Today I own a gym in Wolcott CT calld TOTAL FITZNESS! If im not there then, you could probally find me at a school. I share my story and, try to make yung driver's see the danger's that are very real, or, you can try The Red Cross. I donate my blood, i thank thos hew've helpd me, and hope mine can do the same. I don't look at myself as a man. When you accept the fact you are a man, you are only human. It's when you are willing to do the impossible, and stand up against your fears that's when you become a role model, someone's Hero. A hero has the abilty to do many things. A Hero can Motivate and Inspire others, to have the Courage to keep moving forward. Courage is more exhilarating than fear and in the long run it is easier. We do not have to become heroes over night. Just a step at a time, meeting each thing that comes up, discovering we have the strength to Overcome the odds and obtain your success. Success is the piece of mind that comes from courage. Knowing you gave everything you had to the opportunities that life has presented to you. Which brings you right back to having the Courage to keep moving forward. That's where a Hero comes into play. A Hero has the ability to reach down and lift people up. Why I won't accept Failure. The way I look at failure, and would incourage others to is that Failure is just the opportunity to begin again just more intelligently. With that being said, it becomes difficult to say what is impossible. Yesterday's dream is today's hope and tomorrow's reality. Remember the future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams! But you can't be afraid when Failure comes. When you're trying your best, giving everything you have to whatever the situation maybe, and you're still coming up short but more importantly still spilling your heart out to achieve, that's good! Because it's baptism under fire! If you can get through that you'll get the only kind of respect that matters in this world, SELF RESPECT!


  1. wow, i had chills reading this entire thing. you both are so inspiring. please keep doing what your doing, obviously your man was meant to be here and your meant to be with him to help eachother grow in ways im sure you never imagined.

    thank you for this story you both are amazing and im happy his accident turned out be life changing in a positive way- i had a friend who died in a car accident also(he wasnt driving either-my bf was actually) but anyway, im glad i found this blog and thank you.

  2. i also wanted to add:
    its amazing in its self that your guy had the courage to get back up and do what he does. most ppl would wither away and die feeling sorry for themselfs- he is truly meant to be here for many many reasons. <333

  3. Blood donete is a great idea!I also encougage to donete blood.